Love - from my other blog!!!

...i always think about it and wanted to pen it down somewhere..it is never 'how you feel for a person' that metters.....most of the times, it depends on how the other person makes you feel, that matters. To me it does. And it should. Even when you are in love, it is often because you think the other person really makes you feel on top of the world. When you are in love, you are in a different world, you think differently, you dream differently, you reach out to things you never dreamt of, you get compassion in yourself, you live to the fullest, each day, each hour, each inute and every second - you are in love with yourself because someone has just made you feel like that. In love, there is often competition - between the two people in love. You make the other person feel wonderful, while the other person is in a quest to make you feel even more wonderful. That's the beauty of love. You forgive, you forget the wrongs, you justify yourself, you become positive, you reach for synergy of thoughts, you become selfless, and you become pure!

It is a very naive and honest feeling - when you love, you love selflessly, like a baby, not really thinking where will it lead to, what will it cost you, whichever way it will take you. When you love, you break all rules, you want to reach out to the sky and shout on top of your voice that you feel like living hundred times more, just because you have a beautiful person in your life who thinks you are the world for him/her. Everything, in a nutshell goes back to what the other person makes you feel.

When you love, you are not you...you are god's angel. When you love, you become a dreamer... you are two feets above the ground...you want to rock the world, you want to fight it out, you want to break all rules, you want to take risks, you want to live every second of your life, you want to explore every possible destination in this world, yopu want to go to every deserted place in the world, you want to take up challenges, you want to prove to the world that you exist, you want to be innovative in everthing you do, particularly with your soulmate, you have great levels of energy, great level of passion in almost everything that you do...your perception changes, your outlook changes, everything around you looks beautiful because you beleive that you are beautiful..that's what keeps you going, your confidence is sky high, and negativity is rock bottom...

The hunger for feeling good, the hunger for being felt good, the hunger for love, the hunger for being someone's world, the hunger for being a somebody, the hunger for being cared for, the hunger for being in demand, the hunger for being recognized - I think these are all the basic needs of any or every human being. I guess, Love, in its entirity, fulfills all of it. Be in love...with yourself and others....feel love..in and around. If you have made the other person feel beautiful from within, do that right away....remember when you love, you love selflessly, without thinking what the other person is doing or has done.

Alternately, when the other person gets out the worst in you, you take time to let the feeling sync in you - but sooner or later, you know you are have grown out of the person, out of the feeling of love, out of those circumstances when you thought you could not go on without that person. You cannot forever be in love.