Yes, I will, TOO.
...If it helps this way, I will do it too..though I hate to do this. I still hate myself to do it..but then, my space afterall...have the right to write whatever I feel. Right? If it cannot be between two people, let it be in this space.
I don't know what do people think of themselves at times. Why can't they understand the difference between what is said to pull their leg and what is said seriously. At a go, someone calls you rude, arrogant, always wanting to be 'in control', always ready to bull you, always doing things the way you want to, asking what other things you play with other than hearts, asking why you need people around you when you are so self suffificient and can do everything on your own...they also condemn you for your poor understanding of their needs, they tell you that you don't know how to handle sensitive things, and they tell you are full of yourself....
What do you do hearing this? React a little, with a smile? May be not. But I did. And this was about me.
However, when I say a single line to this someone...the reaction is a 'Bomb Explosion'. And usually there is a dhamki following that. Why do people react this way? This has happened a couple of times. Why can't people take a feedback when they so like giving feedbacks? before you start to talk, there is usually a one liner 'I don't like to hear this, please say this to someone else, no it is my life and I will do that way I want to, who are you to tell me how to handle things...and blahj blah blah....
Tum jo karo, sab sahi hai...hum jo karein, sab galat. I give a damn. Sab kuch tumhari marzi se nahi ho sakta, the way you like..the way you want to hear, the way you want to see, the way you want to be felt.
I GIVE A DAMN.
8 comments:
Happens so many times no...especially when its with men. No wonder they are all from mars :))
I like what you have written in your "about me" Everything is in the mind, thats where it all starts:)
these people who dont like listening to others i think are the ones who cant accept change..:) maybe because they are insecure and not sure of what they are doing and also filled with ego.
So when you ask them to do something or make a move in a certain way you have hurt their ego a big time..:)
what they lose is a good relationship :) and what you gain is dealing with another moron lol
weekend hai...have fun :))
Sharanya
Sharanya, with time I guess they too shall realize that they have lost a good relationship...or maybe they never realize that because there are many people around them to flatter them yet and to not let that realization sink in....whatever, there is a point till when I can take it...beyond that...TWO HOOTS...never cared much anyway! I like giving importance to moments and people that make me happy. And by the way, I could relate to a post that u wrote long back on someone calling you insensitive, arrogant etc...
You have a great weekend yourself.
OMG two greats interacting here! I read both your blogs in my reader! Some really thought provoking stuff you write!
Kshitij...like experiences lead to likemindedness..lolz...just that...and now am laughing my head out...it couldn't have been better!!
Thought provoking stuff...yeah yeah sure...it was plain anger on a friend..nothing else.
hey mona:
aur bhi gham hain zamaane main.....if someone makes you feel bad and they develop a history of continuing to do so........bulls***.............who cares. YOU gotta decide who is in your inner circle, who is not. Life is truly too short to witness and subject anyone else to that nonsense. So literally, bhad main jaaye....surround yourself with people who help you become a better person and who help you to help them become better people.
Westshine...I will agree with you...but not everyone is the kind of person you want to say 'bhad mein jaaye'. This person that I have written about is a wonderful human being..someone I am pretty fond of...thoda irritattion hai..chala jayega...infact chala gaya...
Tu kaisi hai? aur kahaani kitni aage badi?
No wonder Didi calls you a carnivore-you really chewed up someone nice and proper there....am actually a bit surprised because I don't really have any recollections of an angry scorpio....you do pack quiet a sting.Well, as far as giving a damn is concerned-the fact that you actually ended up writing so much actually means that someone did really rub you the wrong way....and hell hath no fury like a woman scorned....chalo, ab jaane bhi do-am sure your pal regrets it more than you do.....and yes,TWO WRONGS NEVER MAKE A RIGHT
:-) Doc...don't know whether pal regrets it, but I do..becaue I don't this kind of stupidity ever..but had to do it to make someone understand it ain't always good to write about what you think and feel in a public forum..anyway, guess I chose the wrong way.
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