where ever you are, whatever you do - I will be right here, waiting for you.
Such a cliched line which every lover would love to use once in a lifetime for his/her love.
I say I would never say that. I may have said that before. But with age, thoughts change. Why would I? Why would I keep waiting for the other person, when the other person decides to move on in life. I cannot and will not demean my existence to prove the world to someone else, who's world you are anyway no longer now. I wonder what goes into the minds of people when they say this. Romantic? Is that the word? Do they really mean it? How often do they really do it? I remember writing this before - I don't know of any person who kept waiting for years altogether for someone. Then was it all bookish? Or is the feeling any less? Or it is filterated?
I understand that I should not take it literally and that it is just a way of many such expressions. A way to show what the other person means to you that you are ready to wait forever for that person. But what if it was an expression in itself. Would I believe it? NO. Do I think anyone else should belive it? NO. Do I think anyone can actually wait that long? NO.
People should actually stop fooling themselves by thinking that their love will come back, that they will be happy waiting for someone, even if it is not waiting..they will be happy with the thought that they are in love...it ain't worth it. It never really is. When you love, make sure you feel it. Not just within but from the other side too. If you don't, then move on - find love elsewhere. [As I write this, I know I have hit the wrong chord. But then people, I am ready for your reactions. I just wrote what I feel today.]
Remember? You better do - one life, guys...one life. Don't let it go non-existent. Make the most of it. Every moment. Love or leave - but celebrate it. I do. I will make a concious effort to do....because I will be right here waiting - for life to show me whatever it can...good, bad, ugly, beautiful - have been seeing it all and have the will and the strength to see so much more.
