Love is somtimes just sitting and making conversations - and then it really doesn't matter what you talk...its just about listening most of the times or talking like never before, without thinking whether the other person is involved or not because there is no pretense, because you know whatever you talk is being taken with almost the same feel. How many times do we actually feel so involved in any conversation? When there is no other thought in your mind, when you are so involved in what the other person is saying that you just want to listen and do nothing else. There is no other thought in your mind - intense concentration on what the other person is saying, visualizing while the other person speaks. It doesn't happen to me often but whenever it does, it touches my heart because I know there is love...and I know am being heard and I know I am listening. There are some bonds in my life where positivity oozes each moment, there is concern, there is care, there is passion, there is a certain feel, and there is momentum - you want to go back time and again to them and feel good, in your own way. You like the hint of taunt in the tone, even if it meant to tell you you did not call...you like the authority that shows. Even when you are talking about your job, or about someone's health or just an enquiry on how was the new year celebration - there is warmth, whole lot of it.
I may not always be in conversations practically..but in my mind, I do hold them quite often. Its not about the new year that begins or the year that goes passing by, its about what you feel when you talk, its about how you feel when you hang up the phone, its about how much it sensitizes you, its about the post facto feeling that you get..after a minute or an hour or some days! I am glad I have relationships where I feel the warmth, which make me feel so good about myself, which reassure me I belong, which just leave me wanting for more!
....and whoever said love was sitting and making conversations...I couldn't agree more! :)
God bless.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Conversations....
Posted by That was it... at 9:14 PM
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Could I just say....that I couldn't agree more.
:) yeah you could, sanju.
If I may be so bold to join in, I completely agree. Conversation must be at the base of a relationship. The warmth that comes from a conversation with a special person is incredible. You know you are in love when you cannot wait to hear sound of a special person's voice. When you cannot wait to hear what they have say (about anything). Or, cannot wait to read their words. :)
Anony...good to have you hear and listen to what you have said. I agree and I agree and I actually agree. :)
I think it is easy to agree when with someone speaking completely from their heart. Usually, the heart will agree with the heart. In the heart is kindness, caring and truth. It is when the mind enters the conversation that things can become distorted and kindness, caring and truth can be lost. Maybe that is where or when relationships fail, when we try to listen and speak with our minds instead of our hearts. I don't know if this makes sense. I hope it does.
"Love is not looking at each other.
It is, but, looking outwards together in the same direction" - Eric Segal
And where there is love, there is conversation - verbal or otherwise.
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