Saturday, September 13, 2008

...Story Begins

- Picture abhi baaki hai. :)
[When you think there is a end nearly, just somewhere around...a new life begins - have experienced it so many times, have smiled at it, laughed at it and sometimes cried over it...life shows you so many faces...each time its just you and you alone who encounters all of them by yourself. There are just so very many things inside of you that you live and die with. Every moment in retun only teaches you and prepares you to place yourself better the next time.]
Not sure if this is connected anyway in what we have been discussing but there is a thread going on in my mind since yesterday and I just wanted to put it up here. Does it help today if you are down and you call up your ex and start discussing what's going wrong? NO. Do you know why? Because it ain't your ex who you want to talk it out to. There is a time and phase for everything, including your feelings. They change over time. What you felt for a person in a moment may change tomorrow. You will be surprised but that's the way it is. It is someone else then who would provide you that much needed solace. Someone told me recently - there is a phase and time for every feeling...beyond and before which you cannot afford to feel or do anything. So next time when you see a pair of patient eyes looking at you, don't just ignore them. Well, I sure was stunned. I still am. I still wonder what that meant. I still want to prove that wrong. But there was a point in what was told. It had logic. I agree to it completely. There are so many times when we overlook the warmth and care that is being showered on us - because we are so busy in our world, because we take the person for granted, because we think we are special and so will always be taken care of....it ain't always so...one person so selflessly loving you may walk out of your life..and then never come back again. It doesn't feel right when that happens right? We may tend to ignore the fact and try and please us with superficial things..but the fact remains that the person has gone. U lost the chance to make life worthwhile, the way you wanted and dreamt of. And you may never get it back again. There might be a situation where you can do nuthing about it.
Hurts, right? I know it does. What are you doing about it? :)
This one - just for my records.

6 comments:

Sharanya said...

Mon tereko kya huwa ???

That was it... said...

Mereko kuch nahi hua....sabki aise hi story nahi hoti kya? think think..

Unknown said...

Always a matter of perspective ...check the SACRED SPACE in the Times of India dated 10th / 11th of this month-lemme see if I can mail it to u...and trust me-while there is a phase and time for every feeling ,there will also be some constants in life....things that do not change...and if I may be impertinent enough to answer Sharanya's question-thou dost think tooo much-and that's what makes you a lot different..and still the same-welcome back

That was it... said...

Sanju (allow me to call you by this name..I was tempted) - it is always such a pleasure to hear from you...I guess I agree with you. Some things don't change and thank god for all such things. :)
Hmm...too much thinking..yeah I guess so..:) thanks

Sharanya said...

Ok ill come back tomorrow and read again...saturday and sunday i dont think :D

Unknown said...

u r always welcome